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Parting Company

Feb. 16th, 2026 11:04 pm
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I've just applied to Companies House to have my Limited Company, of which I am sole director, struck off and dissolved. I founded it years ago as a potential holding organisation for providing IT services to political organisations. But it never really worked out like that - I spent many years providing those services such as mailing lists, chatrooms, wikis, CRM systems, but never got on the "approved suppliers" list. Then 2019 happened and... yeah, I stopped doing that. Part of people fucking me over in politics was making false allegations about me violating data protection laws, and that shit could have damaged my real job, so it was another reason to back away.

I'm feeling bittersweet about it all, but I still have my head held high. I did a better job than many of the people who actually got paid for doing this sort of thing. In retrospect I'm glad I never did manage to get anywhere with it; losing my social life and activism was bad enough, but at least I didn't lose my livelihood at the same time. Still, it's an interesting trouser-leg of time to contemplate.

I guess this is why I do things like read my employer's social impact reports. It's nice to know that the work I'm doing is helping other people make a difference in the world, even if it doesn't feel like I'm doing it myself.

Monday DE: Congrat-u-lations

Feb. 16th, 2026 01:57 pm
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Afternoon, folks! Several big celebrations this week, so gōngxǐ fācái/Kung Hei Fat Choi for everyone who will be celebrating Lunar Chinese New Year, and Ramadan Mubarak/Ramadan Kareem to everyone for whom Ramadan begins in a day or so!

While we're talking celebrations... what major festivities does your pup mark? How do they celebrate them?

Vaguely Romantic

Feb. 16th, 2026 12:26 am
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It's been a busy weekend, full of chores and errands, but for a while on Saturday night I was spending time with all three of my partners, chatting and sharing food. It wasn't an intentional Valentine's Day thing, but it was sweet nonetheless. And it's always good to be reminded of what awesome people I share love with.

Now Playing

Feb. 13th, 2026 03:09 pm
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🎮 Cities: Skylines (88 hours played)

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Losing Community?

Feb. 13th, 2026 12:05 am
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I haven't posted on Facebook for about a year, since they announced that they were no longer even pretending to moderate queerphobia. But I've checked in there about once a week to catch up on close friends, and it's been a useful source of events. Since they've now insisted that users pay or get even more stalked / used to feed the LLM / GenAI machine, I've decided to just download my data (including photos etc.) and delete my account. I'm aware that I'm cutting myself off from some people this way, but most of them I've got other ways to talk to - mostly via Signal or WhatsApp.

This is happening about the same time as Discord are announcing various changes. I'm already using a SOCKS proxy based in Germany to circumvent their age restriction requirements, but that may stop being effective soon, or they may again be feeding everything into the GenAI behemoth. There's a good chance I'm going to have to disengage with Discord in the next few weeks.

I'm worried that this is going to cut me off from some other communities. The Manchester-based Discord has been a bit dead since a big argument a few months ago caused a schism, and neither it nor its supposed replacement managed critical mass. So that's not much of a concern. And I quit the UTAW Discord when I resigned.

But the Doof uses Discord for its Thursday evening stream chat, and I'll really miss that. I've been suggesting to communities that they move to Zulip, who provide a free tier much like Discord, but which is also Free Software, self hostable, and supports migrating between installs. I even set one up for the Doof. But nobody's even interested in trying it out so far. Discord is also a place where some queer and Covid-cautious activism happens and I'll be sad to miss that too.

Still, concentrating on the positives, I have friends from real-life things like Queer Club and the gym, who I talk to over Signal or WhatsApp, and I've just prompted a meetup of local gym buds for brunch in a few weeks. I'm playing a D&D campaign with P and friends every couple of weeks. I chat with people on the Fediverse. Even if I do lose out on communities currently based on Discord, I'm not going to be totally cut off.

Thursday @ 10:43 am

Feb. 12th, 2026 10:43 am
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Love finding queries to example.org in the pihole logs.

Someone forgot to change their defaults . . .

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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.

Tuesday DE

Feb. 10th, 2026 08:24 am
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Since I am trapped in a fairly boring training session that doesn't have a lot to do with my direct job...

How does or would your character(s) do in a training that they felt didn't really apply to them? Would the length of the training session matter?

Da bricks.

Feb. 11th, 2026 03:18 am
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I am here to tell you it’s okay to go home. Metaphorically speaking. Turn it off. Tune it out. Reacquaint yourself with boredom, with understimulation, with the grounding and restorative sluggishness of your own under-optimized thoughts. Then see how the world looks and feels to you — what types of things gain traction. What opportunities arise, not for entertainment — but for purpose. For action.

Caitlin Dewey on boredom.

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy

Feb. 10th, 2026 01:32 am
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I have just finished re-watching the 1979 "Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy" series with Alec Guinness. Such a wonderful piece of television, so beautifully filmed and constructed around a brilliant story. The acting is so wonderfully subtle.

Next up, "Smiley's People" from 1982 - I've not seen that before, so it'll be a complete surprise.

Today in “… huh.”

Feb. 10th, 2026 09:18 am
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The business of a bank is pretty simple. Banks make loans, by either lending directly to consumers or business, or by buying commercial or government bonds. They finance those loans with deposits, usually from local customers who want a safe place to keep their money and earn a bit of interest. Deposit[s] are guaranteed by the government, so they are as good as cash. The spread between what [banks] pay for deposits and what they [make] from loans or bonds is their profit margin.

Matt Stoller on banks.

I found this interesting because I think the whole “banks, how do they work” thing is something most adults who’ve used one have a vague intuitive sense of but — unless you’ve taken some kind of economics class or something — have probably never actually had coherently explained to you. So, well. Here it is.

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Music Monday

Feb. 9th, 2026 03:09 pm

💩🔪

Feb. 9th, 2026 12:54 pm
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Can you freeze your poop and hone it into a working knife? Science says no.

Also ref. the absolutely horrifying line of, “the knife-edge still quickly melted and deteriorated.” No thank you!!!

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Sunday @ 6:44 pm

Feb. 8th, 2026 06:44 pm
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Can confirm if you are the sort of person who thinks you might like Iron Lung that you will, in fact, like Iron Lung.

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A softer world.

Feb. 8th, 2026 06:27 pm
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What Americans can learn from this external perspective is not a list of policy prescriptions, but a reframing of the problem itself. The Kill Line exposes how deeply American culture has internalized the idea that survival must be earned continuously, without interruption. It reveals how quickly empathy collapses once someone falls out of productivity. It shows how social trust erodes when people know that one misstep can erase decades of effort.

Julian Scaff on what y’all look like.

TFW you read something that is both entirely brainrotted (“the mythology of American resilience that has long dominated global imagination” lol sure mate) but also almost, almost getting it . . .

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Maybe this will fix me

Feb. 7th, 2026 07:17 pm
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All my free time right now is just couch-rotting and HOUSING, so even my calls with my dad are just 10-minute "You got nothing? I got nothing too" check-ins. Last weekend, I thought I found The Place (after having broken my own heart with not being able to afford my first-love unit); then their realtor broke the news that not only did the building not allow dogs, but they'd accidentally listed it for $30K under the real asking price, which was: a shock!!! After sulking for a few days, because it really would have been EVERYTHING, location-wise, it was back in the saddle.

Today, we went to three different places, and the last one was The One. I'd fallen in love with the listing, but seeing it in person just felt so so so so right. Now, of course, there are multiple offers, and my realtor and I are trying to put together a good pitch but I'm going to be paying more than I hoped I would, BUT. Realtor thinks we'll get it, and I would like to know where I'm living in April. It's smaller than my current place but laid out really, really well. The light is astonishing, the kitchen is fantastic AND there's an excellent back porch. I want it to work out real bad!! The wise thing would be to Start Purging Now, but I do feel, on a larger level, that I've been in ADHD waiting mode for my whole life since December. That is hard to dig out of at the best of times.

Other news is sparse. My arm is doing really well in OT; physical therapists are just the nicest people in the whole world, and I'm also dead set on getting myself a magnetic dart board once I'm in the new place. Can This Love Be Translated? is so much better than it should be — a completely delightful love triangle between two people who don't speak each other's language and their interpreter. It is honestly also a lot like watching my character bleed fic come to life, and I'm dying (positive!!!) over that a lot.

Even though we're doing a ton of election/primary coverage, I really really love my job and my coworkers. I just love them. What a good crew. That's a huge relief.

I am so excited about what my life is going to be once I get the psychic weight of this condo eventuality in order. I keep thinking about the spaces I want to have in my home and what they'll enable, and I want to invite people over for parties all the freaking time. We'll get there! It'll happen! I just wish I knew what it will look like. Waiting, especially for things that are ultimately out of your control: It's terrible!

Everything is gooning.

Feb. 8th, 2026 12:27 am
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Every time I’ve tried to involve AI in one of my creative pursuits it has spit out the exact same level of meh. No matter the model, no matter the project, it simply cannot match what I have in my head. Which would be fine, but it absolutely cannot match the fun of making the imperfect version of that idea that I may have made on my own either. Instead, it simulates the act of brainstorming or creative exploration, turning it into predatory pay-for-play process that, every single time, spits out deeply mediocre garbage. It charges you for the thrill of feeling like you’re building or making something and, just like a casino — or online dating, or pornography, or TikTok — cares more about that monetizable loop of engagement, of progress, than it does the finished product. What I’m saying is generative AI is a deeply expensive edging machine, but for your life.

Ryan Broderick on expensive ways to not get off.

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Against anarchism.

Feb. 7th, 2026 06:27 am
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In defence of bureaucracy. I admit that, for my sins, I am still a bureaucrat at heart (second generation, even), and deeply distrust all forms of anti-statism. Power and hierarchy creep into human relationships whether we want them to or not . . . and I think the reality is a lot of people do want them to. Anarchists and libertarians aside, we evolved in hierarchies and I think most of us still have a primal part of our monkey brain that likes to know Our Place In The Group: “This is the Thing I do, this is how I Contribute and get Praise and Status.” I don’t think this is an inherently bad trait, nor an inherently good one. It’s simply a part of our squishy human biology we have to reckon with. We eat, we sleep, we shit, we fuck, and we are highly sensitive to group dynamics. Welcome to being the planet’s most social animal.1

There are also a fucking lot of us, and how to scale brains that spent hundreds of thousands of years living in groups of a few dozen up to the millions (let alone billions) is something we’ve been working on only for the last six millennia or so. So we’re still pretty rough at it. But I’m not convinced that the fact that a lot of our attempts have been a bit shit means the only answer is to throw out the project entirely, particularly given a lot of the main advocates for that seemingly can’t even run their own households without exploitation, let alone any group larger than that. Like, Thoreau’s mum did his washing, the women on the commune are secretly treating the drinking water so no-one gets cholera, and anyone who’s had to sit in on COAG or some similar body will have to go practice box breathing after reading any anarchist proposal for post-state federated communities.

Decentralisation and voluntary organisation are great when it’s about, say, shitposting or SFF conventions. But would you trust a room full of fediverse instance admins or fandom concoms to manage aviation security?2 And I say this as someone who has instance adminned with experience running huge government systems and also helped run huge government systems with people who’ve sat on concoms.3

Anyway. In the meantime, we have bureaucracy.

  1. Before all the bee- and ant-defenders log on: I said “social,” not “eusocial.”
  2. Phrased glibly, but . . . I would actually be interested to hear a “yes” justification on this from anyone with actual direct experience in both government and community group organizing. Assuming there are any.
  3. Also, if your answer to that is “well we just won’t have planes,” then I would tentatively suggest that what you’re advocating for isn’t so much “anarchism” as it is “the complete destruction of the modern world.” In which case, firstly, at least be honest about it and, secondly, fuck you.

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